Ha, well, not fully made up yet but I sure am getting closer!
I like to drive myself insane with these things. I swear, it's a good thing my wife understands my shortcomings.
I spent my time (a couple months) "torturing" myself about this as well.
Compomotives: expensive, could be hard to replace if there ever were another bankruptcy (not my wish), good reputation, clear the brakes... Lots of people have them
LR3 rims: spacers (subjectively positive or negative factor), cheap, very easy to replace, OEM (dealer may not even notice them

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I went with the LR3 rims a little bit to stand out from the Compomotives (also I couldn't get black ones when I made the decision). I saved $500/700 (powder coat, spacers, labor)... And I got myself a IIDTool with that money
I also moved my tpms from the 19s to the 18s and if I ever use the 19s again, I'll just use the IIDTool to turn off the tpms setting. Plus I get a "free" lift and many other fun things. The tool allowed me to bring my LR4 back from death once already.