...not to beat a dead horse or be argumentative with you, Todd....but I think:
1. You use it for more off-road purposes than the typical SUV owner.
2. Everything you say above is true, but many other SUVs can do the same things, with better reliability.
The one area that the LR3 really shines and beats the snot out of its competitors in, in my opinion, is offroad performance. Nearly everything else (efficiency, room, on-highway handling, electronic gizmos, even HDC) can all be matched by other vehicles. If I wanted something that was great on-road and could take me up the mountain, I would pick an X5. Lexus/Toyota has a tradition of superb reliability and offers many choices; even hybrids. The Jeep Grand Cherokee is proven and the Commander looks pretty cool.
With the SUV lineup so watered-down with crossovers and such, there is almost another subset of Sport Utes emerging, let's call them just "4x4s." These are (I'll only name a few mid-size entries):
LR3, H3, Lexus GX470 (maybe), 4-runner. Others? MB G-wagon
The distinction with these are that they have: body-on-frame construction, 2-speed transfer case, at least one locking diff. The GX gets a "maybe" because it has poor approach/departure angles and doesn't appear rugged enough to survive a moderate trail without sustaining some body damage...not sure what its belly looks like, either.
So....does MIA want a 4x4 or an SUV?
It's not that I'm discounting the LR3, it's just that it's a 5600 lb beast. Why buy a 5600 lb beast if you're just going to take it to the mall?
That said, $10k sounds like a very reasonable price and that is indeed compelling. THAT might be the one factor that outweighs everything I just said up there!